But that’s where it became… odd. According to this organization’s ideas, ‘retard’ is the most offensive thing anyone could ever say, and in a larger sense they believe that discrimination against ID people is worse by far than discrimination against any other group. At some point it was even said that insulting a Black person wasn’t so bad – after all, a Black person can more easily punch you in the face! Yeah….

Now don’t get me wrong – I’m certainly against using the word ‘retard’. I’m glad they’re trying to draw attention to the offensiveness of it. And the argument for discrimination against ID persons being the worst possible makes some sense on the surface.

BUT. I’m fairly certain that as an able-bodied, reasonably privileged white person, I’m in no position to judge the relative degree of someone else’s oppression – even given the amount of oppression I have endured. I’m just as certain that the (mostly WASP male) leaders in this organization aren’t in such a position either. It all comes across as a minor variation on “We’re the great white heroes, we know what your problems are and how to fix ‘em!”

I mean, really – is ‘retard’ really worse than ‘lame’, worse than ‘gay’ (as used in modern youth culture), worse than ‘bitch’ or ’slut’? If one really is worse, how could it possibly matter?

All oppression is related.

I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality… I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word.
– Martin Luther King, Jr.

I sat down and listened to the “I have a dream” speech today – and realized that I had never actually heard it before! Sure, I’ve read the speech, and others of his perhaps a dozen times, but I never actually listened to it, all the way through, as spoken by the man himself.

It was surprisingly enlightening.

I spent most Martin Luther King holidays during my teenage year angry, not perhaps at MLK himself, but at the importance that people attached to him. It seemed completely justified at the time – he was a plagiarist, a hypocrite in a variety of other ways, etc. (and I was influenced by my moderately racist local culture). After I became a feminist, I added his occasionally poor attitude toward women to the list.

Eventually, of course, I realized that most of his supposed failings were either fabrications or exaggerations made by a rather nasty group of people (there’s a nice write up here, if you’re curious). But even more important, I think, was realizing who Martin Luther King Jr. actually was.

Martin Luther King Jr. was a great speaker. He wasn’t a philosopher or a scientist who single-handedly discovered some great truth. And while he was an excellent leader, I don’t think that’s really why he’s important. Martin Luther King Jr. real impact was that when he spoke, he wasn’t just speaking for himself – he was speaking for an entire community. Even more, perhaps – he spoke for a whole group of people, black, white, women, men, who had one thing in common: they cared about equality.

MLK didn’t just speak about race either, as some would have us think, he spoke about war, about poverty, even about technology. His genius was that he said what the people said; in listening, we can hear the people (including, perhaps, ourselves) speak.

And we would do well to listen.

(Crossposted at Fourth Wave Feminism)

Don’t get me wrong – I’m very glad Obama was elected – but an election always seems to be far more important than it really is. Congress is still the same weird inefficient mess, lobby interests are still far too important, the voice of the people still ignored. People are still stupid and ignorant and biased. Obama likely won’t be able to pass most of the legislation that he really wants to, and four years from now, the US will still be in about the same place it is now. I hope it will be better, but that remains to be seen.

It’s just another election.

A couple of important things happened, though. One is very bad, and the other very good. Hopefully, the good outweighs the bad:

The bad: California’s Proposition 8. It failed. The effects from this will last far, far longer than almost anything else in this election. It’s just incredibly depressing. I still can’t believe it passed – in fact, my conservative parents were surprised it passed! The message is clear. If California can’t defeat a marriage amendment, nobody can. I’m guessing Massachusetts and Connecticut will both pass amendments as soon as they can. (Side note: I have this theory on ballot measures. It seems like it is much easier to pass them than to defeat them, almost as if a certain number of people just vote ‘yes’ without actually reading it first! I think that some LGBT rights organization should get an amendment started somewhere that allows gay marriage – it just might work! I have no real evidence to support this, though…)

The good: We just elected the first Black president! Irrespective of any policies, legislation, judiciary appointments, or other actions that Obama and the new Congress might make, this fact alone will have a wonderful effect. I can’t count the number of times that I heard someone say how “terrified” they were of Obama being President. When pressed, they would always say that they thought that Obama was a socialist. That wasn’t it, of course. Most people don’t have an irrational fear of socialists – and Obama isn’t any more socialist than other Democrats (or Republicans, for that matter!) anyway. Heck, Teddy Roosevelt was a socialist! No, people are scared of Obama because he’s Black, pure and simple. And I’m excited about the effect that having a Black president will have on the country, on rights for people of color, for women, for any marginalized group.

Bigoted people will see that they were fools. People with latent and subconscious racism or sexism will be pushed toward a better viewpoint. Everyone will realize that the country is better when it’s not just being run by White-Anglo-Saxon-Protestants. And most importantly, when people say, “In America, anyone can try to accomplish whatever they want. Anyone can be elected President.”, it will not just be an expression, a legal technicality.

It is now the truth.

(Crossposted at Fourth Wave Feminism)